The "Who Have I Met" meme
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From
geminigirl:
What 3 (5) LJ friends have you known longest?
I'm going to list 4, since there is some ambiguity in the term "known"
oatmeal is my cousin. I assume we met when we were less than a year old, though I don't actually remember.
I met
livyanne in kindergarten, though I don't actually remember this. The first time I remember meeting her was sixth grade.
nuitfaerie and I became friends in first grade, though we may have met before then, as we lived in a small town and went to the same preschool.
tangodiva and I were in several school plays together, though we didn't actually know eachother then. Our meeting on LJ was coincidental.
(Actually, there isn't that much ambiguity, I just think running into
tangodiva is amusing and mention-worthy)
Is/are your significant other/s on LJ?
koyote is, as well as at least two ex's.
Do you have LJ friends you've never met in real life?
Many.
Do you have friends you met first on LJ, then in real life?
This is overly complicated.
I was aware of the existence of
deyo,
hopeforyou,
koyote,
mactavish,
sinboy, and
rosefox and had, in some cases, interacted with them on LJ, before meeting them, and before interacting with them anywhere else on the Internet, but they weren't actually on my friends list at the time we met (with the possible exception of
rosefox and
koyote. I can't remember which came first with them).
I knew
darthgeek from elsewhere on the Internet before LJ, but didn't meet him in real life until after "meeting" on LJ.
katster is the only person who I first met on LJ, and then met in real life.
I'm sure I'm leaving at least one person out of this, and I'm not counting animals or babies.
Does it hurt your feelings when someone unfriends you?
A little. It makes me feel boring, but it doesn't ruin my year or anything. If someone I was actually friends with (as opposed to someone I'd just friended because they sounded interesting or because they friended me) unfriended me, I'd be a bit more hurt, especially if no explanation was given.
What would make you unfriend someone?
If they unfriend me (or had not friended me to begin with) and I don't feel like reading what they write anymore, if I had some sort of serious problem with what they posted on a regular basis, or if I decided I did not trust them to read my rare friends-only posts. Only the first of these has ever actually happened.
Do you discuss personal information in your LJ?
What's personal? I rarely discuss things people would consider TMI (well, in my opinion anyways), but I do talk about my life, not just post quizzes or news articles.
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What 3 (5) LJ friends have you known longest?
I'm going to list 4, since there is some ambiguity in the term "known"
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(Actually, there isn't that much ambiguity, I just think running into
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Is/are your significant other/s on LJ?
![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
Do you have LJ friends you've never met in real life?
Many.
Do you have friends you met first on LJ, then in real life?
This is overly complicated.
I was aware of the existence of
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I knew
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I'm sure I'm leaving at least one person out of this, and I'm not counting animals or babies.
Does it hurt your feelings when someone unfriends you?
A little. It makes me feel boring, but it doesn't ruin my year or anything. If someone I was actually friends with (as opposed to someone I'd just friended because they sounded interesting or because they friended me) unfriended me, I'd be a bit more hurt, especially if no explanation was given.
What would make you unfriend someone?
If they unfriend me (or had not friended me to begin with) and I don't feel like reading what they write anymore, if I had some sort of serious problem with what they posted on a regular basis, or if I decided I did not trust them to read my rare friends-only posts. Only the first of these has ever actually happened.
Do you discuss personal information in your LJ?
What's personal? I rarely discuss things people would consider TMI (well, in my opinion anyways), but I do talk about my life, not just post quizzes or news articles.